A naming under the apple tree

Grandparents, guideparents and one very calm baby, gathered in a garden that means the world to them.

Amanda Slader

By Amanda

A garden bench with keepsakes and flowers

The family chose their own garden, under the apple tree their daughter was born beneath, in a manner of speaking. Four generations stood in a circle and made promises to the newest member of the family.

Naming ceremonies are some of my favourites to write. There's no script to follow, only the hopes a family holds for a small person, and the people they've chosen to help keep them.

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Behind the journal

Hello, I'm Amanda

Amanda Slader smiling in a palm filled hotel courtyard

I'm an independent celebrant based in Hertfordshire, creating personal ceremonies across the UK and internationally. I listen first, then write around the people, memories and moments that matter to you.

Pastel cloths and colourful flowers arranged on a table

Ideas & guidance

Choosing a colour palette for your ceremony

A few thoughtful choices can connect your ceremony setting, printed words and personal details, without chasing a trend.

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Ideas & guidance

Ways to involve family and friends in a ceremony

Readings, memories and small shared roles can bring people into the moment, without putting anyone on the spot.

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Weddings

The marquee where nobody wanted to go home

Long tables, garden flowers and a room full of people who had known the couple for years.

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