
By the time everyone sat down in the marquee, the ceremony had already set the tone. Guests had heard how the couple met, laughed at the stories their friends had shared with me, and knew exactly who was who at every table.
That is what a personal ceremony gives the rest of the day. People talk to each other more easily when they have heard the same stories. Long after the meal was cleared, the tables were still full, and nobody seemed in any hurry to leave.






