The reading that made everyone laugh

Their best friend stood up with a poem she'd written herself. Halfway through, the whole room went.

Amanda Slader

By Amanda

Four women dressed for a wedding, smiling together in a garden

She'd warned me beforehand that it might be a bit much. It wasn't. It was a poem about burnt toast, Sunday lie-ins and the way he always steals the duvet, and it said more about the two of them than anything formal could have.

This is why I love personal readings. A ceremony doesn't have to be solemn to be meaningful. Sometimes the truest thing in the room is the one that makes everyone laugh.

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Behind the journal

Hello, I'm Amanda

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I'm an independent celebrant based in Hertfordshire, creating personal ceremonies across the UK and internationally. I listen first, then write around the people, memories and moments that matter to you.

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